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Wish You Could’ve Known Cali’s Dad

Cali’s Dad is Tullio Petrucci. I’m convinced he’s watching over everything we do. He lived his life as an artist who focused on the audience. The name of his company was Interactive Entertainment. He cared about a two way, three way or four way interchange between the audience and the producer.

He would have totally gotten what we’re doing with GeekBrief.TV and he would have inspired us to do a better job. Actually, I think he does.

We lost him before we started the show. It sucks and we hate not having him as a visibly active part of what we do. Tullio Petrucci, father of Luria Petrucci (aka, Cali Lewis) was/is an amazing man. He accepted me and my love for his daughter. I couldn’t have done that so gracefully because she is way too exceptional. 

It’s around the anniversary of when we lost him. We wish he was actively, physically here advising us and helping us succeed. It’s hard not to believe, though, that he’s here in spirit helping more than he possibly could in the flesh. 

18 Comments

  1. My wishes are with you guys… I wish I could have met the great Tullio Petrucci.

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:08 pm | Permalink
  2. Kevin wrote:

    Mr Tullio lives on in spirit, as you’ve elegantly described. Both Cali and you have challenged how podcast shows could go, both openly and humbly. Keep up the great work guys! :)

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:16 pm | Permalink
  3. Thank you for this note Neal. You had left me wondering with your tweets not to mention a little worried. I am lucky that I still have my parents as I am the same age as Luria.

    I’ll be remembering you guys this weekend.

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:18 pm | Permalink
  4. My condolences are out to you and Cali. Tullio Petrucci sounds like an incredible man from what you have said in this post.

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:21 pm | Permalink
  5. kaykoa wrote:

    Indeed he can see you from the other side. And he is proud, very proud. He smiles on you both.

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:22 pm | Permalink
  6. My thoughts are with both of you as you go through this difficult time.

    My grandfather was a huge influence on me. He is where I got my sense of faith. He taught me that it was faith, not religion, that was important. He passed away almost 12 years ago now. Every time I meet a new person that I really like, I think about how I wished they could have met him. I know of no one that did not or would not have liked him.

    I believe, as you do, that these people who were important to us while they were living, are watching over us and that our memories of their spirit help guide us through our lives.

    You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

    Tony

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:24 pm | Permalink
  7. Thanks, Neal. I wish I could have known him. But through Luria and you, I can glimpse him, and that is something quite exceptional. I hope I can hear more stories about Tullio in the future. I’d like that very much. My thoughts are with both of you.

    Friday, June 20, 2008 at 11:42 pm | Permalink
  8. Lindsay wrote:

    Cali and Neal, I am so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away two years ago when I was 23. I love him and miss him more than anything in the world. He passed away less than two months before my wedding. I hope and pray that he was looking down on me on that special day. I wish he could be here so that I could give him a hug. I wish more than anything in the whole world. But more than that I wish that he is at peace.

    I am an only child, so I was really close to my father. We were so much alike. I think about him and miss him all the time. I know it is harder on certain days.

    Please know that I am here for you both if you ever need to talk.

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 5:40 am | Permalink
  9. neal wrote:

    You guys (and girl, Lindsay) are amazing! Thank you. We were watching a video of him, which is what brought this all on. :)

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 6:24 am | Permalink
  10. neal wrote:

    Oh, weird. I’m signed in as Neal…I’m Cali, no Neal, lol!

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 6:27 am | Permalink
  11. Louise wrote:

    Our condolences on your loss. Anniversaries and Father’s day and birthdays are all hard; they bring it all back, don’t they?

    My stepfather, Bob, was our biggest supporter when we decided to hit the road. He read our blog every day and always wanted us to have streaming video out the front windshield. I wish that Qik had been available while he was still alive. He would have been thrilled.

    When I write, I write to Bob. He is my audience, even though we lost him in November 2006. I’m sure Cali’s Dad is still your #1 fan and is proud and thrilled.

    “The only measure of your words and your deeds will be the love you leave behind when you’re gone.” -Fred Small

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 7:59 am | Permalink
  12. Great post Neal. Cali, I’m so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain.

    My brother passed away at 33 yrs old in 2005 (it will be the 3 yr anniv in one week) from stage 4 colon cancer.

    This week (actually the entire month of June) gets me down every time. I would have thought 3 yrs time would have helped me heal a bit, but to be honest it hasn’t. Maybe it never will.

    I do know when his spirit is around me, though. Only I know and it’s that big brother feeling I get as if he’s watching me or protecting me or even guiding me.

    Your Dad is definitely smiling at the both of you, for you both do such good to the human kind. That kind of gift is never taken for granted.

    Celebrate your Dad as I will try to celebrate Steve.

    Jeff

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 8:27 am | Permalink
  13. Ben Willis wrote:

    Hey guys,
    It sounds like Cali’s dad was a really great guy. It would have been cool to have him involved in GBTV. Maybe you could dedicate part of the big trip to him. That would be cool.

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 9:01 am | Permalink
  14. FWGMills wrote:

    Is this him?
    http://www.thegaartcollection.org/artists/tulliopetrucci.htm
    You said he was an artist. I just kinda put 2 and 2 together.

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 9:06 am | Permalink
  15. Daniel Cedilotte wrote:

    As long as you think that it’s possible for spirits to help you, that is all that matters. Because if you believe it hard enough, how can it not be true.

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 11:24 am | Permalink
  16. Jacob wrote:

    I feel like I should go hug my parents right now. All the arguing sounds pointless when you hear about somebody else’s loss.

    Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 5:36 pm | Permalink
  17. Oh Cali…how I feel your pain. I lost my grandmother, my life-song, three years ago and this month as been especially hard on me. Seeing Neal’s post of David Phelps singing No More Night has me here bawling…partially because I miss her horribly, but partially because she is with Jesus singing and praising Him as one day, I will. I will hug my parents closer…and love them despite their faults…and hope that you know what a gem in Neal you have as his love for you will always remind you of how much your father loved him loving you.

    I’m praying for you….
    Hugs,
    Kat Curlee

    Monday, June 30, 2008 at 3:19 pm | Permalink
  18. Avram Gold wrote:

    Dear Neal and Cali,

    It’s so odd. I am re-reading the polish of a novel I’ve just finished. I based a character on a man I once worked for, who I cannot forget. His influence will never leave me either. His name is/was Tullio, and he was a filmmaker and founder of AND Media. That was 1974.

    On a whim, I typed Tullio’s name into Google and found this site. I feel very sad right now. Would you feel comfortable telling me how Tullio passed and when?

    Yours sincerely,
    Avram Gold

    Sunday, August 24, 2008 at 3:39 pm | Permalink

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